Why didn't it work? Is it so difficult to build a relationship with a Ukrainian woman?

This article is written from our own 16-year experience, so we can already determine how dating and people who turn to our services have changed.

We started our journey back in 2008 as an ordinary translator and a client manager, so we know how everything works from the very beginning and in all details. Unfortunately, 16 years ago there were more couples, because the participants, both women and men, were more open, told more truth about themselves and were easy to work with. Now people themselves have changed a lot, even in the photo, where artificial beauty wins over natural one. Therefore, such artificiality or insincerity often misleads people, and both suffer at the end and those who exaggerate about themselves and those who believe in it.

So what is wrong with the modern world? Is it possible that something has changed in the needs of women and men? Have people themselves changed? Why is it not so easy to meet your match, if we all strive to create a happy, reliable and long-lasting relationship? Well, how do we dream from childhood - once and forever…

So today we are going to understand better what the portrait of modern Ukrainian women looks like.

We will consider the most common types of women with whom we have worked and are working.

1) a woman-conqueror

If we are talking about a woman from the metropolis, who is used to a certain level of comfort that she was able to provide for herself, then she wants to meet a suitable status man. Moreover, she can look for a partner even younger than herself by 7 years and a maximum of 10 years older. She is strong-willed, charismatic, self-confident and she herself likes to set the rhythm and rules in her life. These are successful leaders, managers, and...social media bloggers, with an audience of half a million or more, who influence the mood of society and society reacts to them.

Such woman loves a higher level of comfort, is not afraid of the challenges of fate, and travels a lot, and the main thing is that she wants all basic things to be done for her by others, especially at home, in the family. She won’t probably prepare food in the kitchen, keep it clean and spend weekends with her family in the park, at an exhibition, etc. She just doesn't have time for it, but all this will be done by the housekeeper, and she can't live without an assistant. Her life revolves more around work, projects, filming, recordings, broadcasts, etc. At home, she rests, and this rest is provided to her by others: her husband, assistants, housekeepers, etc.

2) a woman-expectation

If we are talking about the average woman from the metropolis, who has an average paid job, was married and divorced, is raising children or does not have children yet and if she is 27+, then such ladies are considering many options, but they will still figure out life and more- less large cities, with a population of 100,000 or more. Such woman, mostly good housewife, knows how to create a pleasant, cozy and warm atmosphere in the family. For her, the interests of the family will always come first. She gives for what she already has, and together with her husband, she is ready to work further so that living conditions only improve.

But such a woman won’t be happy living far from big cities or has a farm life, for example. Such life will give her discomfort and she will be sad.

She mostly wants to meet a man of the same age or with an age difference of up to 10-14 years older. Such woman likes to read, travel, and go to the theater, cinema, or exhibitions. She likes social life, with rare exceptions.

3) a woman workaholic bee

The one who walks all over others, a woman from a small town or a rural area, from an ordinary simple family who works, has been in a relationship, and has her own life experience. The first thing I want to say is that it is a big mistake when men think that if a girl is from the village, she is less well-groomed! This is not true. And even, on the contrary, they want to look no worse than city girls.

3.1. But among such women there are often those who are very focused on raising their status. This type of woman will try to meet and build a relationship with a successful man in order to live at his expense. She is often called a gold digger. However, there are not many of them, because it is uncomfortable for such girls to work with such services, since they have to leave their data, and they do not really want to reveal their identity and open up. Therefore, if such women do come, they quickly ask to delete their profiles, because they think social networks are more preferable. They want results here and now and everything they care about is the status of the man and feelings don’t matter.

3.2 Also among them the most are those girls who like a calm, quiet life away from people, who lead a more personalized way of life, they understand and know what it is to have a farm, how to take care of it, and what a plus it is for the family along with the physical work.

They are wonderful housewives and wonderful wives because their husbands are the heads of the family. They consult with men, and if a decision has to be made, such women will lean towards what the men say. They are polite and can be a little taciturn, which can be ambiguously perceived as aloofness. But it is not. They are simply hardworking and focused on family well-being. Such women dedicate their lives to their families.

This is, of course, only a small and general part of our work. We communicate a lot with girls to understand who they really are and what their needs are. What we understood clearly is that often girls don’t write important things in their profiles and far not each is ready to open up right away. And if there is any painful moment, the girl will avoid this conversation with a potential future husband and will remain isolated from him in order to feel protected.

It is our job to help her get rid of her fears and help her be open and ready for a new relationship.

Of course, we don’t say that each woman belongs to some certain type we mentioned. There can be women that belong to none or belong to a few types partly. We just give you more information about Ukrainian women so it makes your search easier.

It is extremely difficult for a man from another country to find a good woman - we know that!! Mostly, among hundreds of profiles of beautiful women, men rarely notice the one with whom they would be happy.

You need a guide, you need help, so you don’t build a mirage relationship with a woman you may never meet and who can be totally different than you imagined. How long does it take to get to know a person from another country? It can take months and years.

But if you are open to accepting help from us, our knowledge and skills, then it turns out that it can be fast, and, most importantly, that it is what you were looking for, but could not find by yourself.

We help with the search according to your criteria and also offer acquaintances with ladies that you simply could have missed due to the large number of profiles and photos.

We know each girl personally and communicate often.

Yes, our services are for those who are interested in building real, serious, and long-lasting relationships.

We are not Instagram or TikTok matchmakers. We know our business, and we love what we do and help people find each other, we are the bridge that you can use and go straight to your dream, or go around and choose a much longer, winding, grainy, and more expensive path.

Yes, men love with their eyes and it’s a fact but remember that the book shouldn’t be judged by its cover and most importantly, you should understand that you will live and build relationships not with a girl's appearance, not with a picture from the Internet, but with her character, her soul and her attitude towards her man and other people!

Let's get to know each other and create new happy families together!

With best regards,

IMS ‘Wife Ukraine’ Team